Women in Modern Nigeria
Abbey, Violet, and Maddy
Women
in Nigeria have been constantly evolving for as long as society remembers.
There was a precolonial period where the women had typical “household” roles,
such as pottery, cleaning, mat weaving, and cooking. As in many societies, the
men had most if not all the power: politically, domestically, and socially.
“The most powerful agency of change for the modern woman has been Nigeria’s
formal education system, from which a large number of elite women have emerged.
Intelligent, educated, and confident, they can be found in all leading
occupations; they now challenge many aspects of patriarchy and are gradually
organizing to ensure that the political arena expands sufficiently to
accommodate them"
“The
traditional and Islamic systems of polygamy flourish within every social class.
Women expect very little from men in terms of companionship, personal care, and
fidelity.” Women's marriage in Nigeria is strictly based off of social class,
there are no emotional factors in it. We find this very unfair because women
should be able to marry whoever the wish to not depending on their social
class. Both women and men should have equal rights to marry who they please to.
In Nigeria having a baby is a big responsibility, abortion is still illegal in
nigeria. Women don't like this idea, most men don't mind abortions being
illegal.
A
First Hand Experience taken from;
“Eunice
Eze is a 25-year old Nigerian woman who has recently emerged from a one-year
mourning period after her husbandâs death. What is known as the Widowhood
Practice in Igbo Land has more to do with proving a wifeâs innocence in the
death of her husband than actually mourning his death. Eunice, like other
widows in Nigeria, was taken out of her house upon her husbandâs death. Her
head was shaved, she was kept in one room in the familyâs compound for a whole
year. Eunice was not allowed to leave the family compound, change her clothes,
use soap for showering, or cut or comb her hair. She spent the year in a corner
of a room that was a dirt floor. Eunice survived the Widowhood Practice even
with tuberculosis. Says Eunice, ãIt was so painful to go through the mourning
period. I could not go out of the house. I could not attend any festival or
congregation. I suffered from many sleepless nights. I was so depressed. Many
times I was in shock and disillusioned· not able to distinguish dreams from
realityä. After she emerged from one year of confinement all of her belongings
were gone, even the table she had in the market where she sold fruits and
vegetables. Eunice has had to take her 12-year old daughter out of school
because she cannot afford the school fees and she needs her daughters help in
working on the farm and helping to raise the other four children. Euniceâs
daughter will likely suffer the same fate as her mother.”
This
experience relates to Purple Hibiscus because the family is from the Igbo
tribe. You can see the external circumstances Kambli was facing throughout the
book. This was on top of what she was facing inside her house with her father.
Modern women are simply not on the same level in Nigeria as women in America.
Most Modern women in america have a lot more choices and opportunities than
women in Nigeria today.
https://www.google.com/search?q=modern+women+in+nigeria&safe=active&rls=com.microsoft:en-US&source=lnms&tbm=isch&sa=X&ved=0ahUKEwjG_tCUmq_NAhUIKiYKHXBuAc4Q_AUICCgB&biw=1280&bih=873#imgrc=LT2SIWTjvARm-M%3A
http://www.postcolonialweb.org/nigeria/contwomen.html
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